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Eat more fruit

Judith Yeabsley
4 min readJun 25, 2023

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My son stopped eating fruit. When I looked closely at what was happening, I realised I wasn’t taking my own advice!

My teen had always enjoyed fruit but seemed to be eating less and less.

Every time I offered he turned his nose up.

It’s one of the things that creeps up on you slowly and then all of a sudden, bam it slaps you and you realise you haven’t even noticed that your son has stopped eating fruit!

As usual, I find that when I follow my own advice, feeding my boys goes a whole lot more smoothly 😊

Ignoring my own advice about how to eat more fruit

I felt like the plumber with the leaky taps in their own house. So, I stopped and looked at what was happening and realised I was not following the strategies I know are proven to work. The ones that support children to eat more widely and more joyfully.

Strategies for supporting children to eat more fruit

I decided to take my own advice. “If you want more fruit eaten, serve more, make it easy and make it appealing”. So, I did.

My teen loves fresh pineapple and berries are always a win.

Grapes and oranges are accepted and available most of the year in NZ.

Although I am a huge fan of children stepping up and helping with chores etc. I also know that if you want a teen to do something they are not really interested in, then making it as easy as possible really helps.

I’m not sure it’s that much different for most children (or husbands ;) )

Each morning I chop up a plate of pineapple and orange, add some grapes and leave it ready for him. It’s easy, it looks appealing and because it’s all chopped up it’s simple to pick at. So, he eats it.

When he’s home, after lunch I offer fruit again but usually it’s a no.

Then in the evenings when I know he’s getting hungry a few hours after dinner I bring some chopped fruit into the lounge where everyone is relaxing. I don’t ask, I just bring it in, and because it’s there and it’s easy, it gets…

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Judith Yeabsley
Judith Yeabsley

Written by Judith Yeabsley

The Confident Eater, author of Creating Confident Eaters.

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